
When I was young in fields I’d play
and pick the dandelions where they lay
to pluck their petals all day long
while singing happily this little song:
She loves me, She loves me not.
She loves me, She loves me not
As one by one the petals fell
in my enchanted fairy dell.
And how my flighty mood would change
if, on the last petal in the range,
I concluded, She loves me not!
For this conclusion, I wanted not.
I wanted life to go my way
and to be happy, come what may.
But, I discovered, as I grew tall
That life’s not like that at all.
There were times when I felt depressed and down
and could muster no response except a frown
as I drew into myself and stayed alone
to protect myself from imagined hurts unknown.
But happiness cannot be sought,
nor even sold or ever bought.
It comes from action without a care
for rewards, or baits to snare.
It comes from love, most freely given:
It is the helping hand when we have striven
to avoid commitment and responsibility.
So easy now, but then, oh, so hard to see.
I discovered this when love was offered
and, hesitantly, took the hand then proffered.
No longer facing life alone, but sharing,
and so discovered the gift of caring.
Oh dandelions, whose petals fall,
your simplistic game, now tells all
that life may be a game of chance
but it’s love’s game we all should dance.